Showing posts with label October 7. Show all posts
Showing posts with label October 7. Show all posts

09 October 2026

Where were you on...?

Today in history is 7 October. Perhaps you remember attending a friend's birthday party or watching a game of the World Series. For some, it's a national holiday or driving your own car for the first time. In fact, every day has both individual and collective memories just waiting in the wings. I'm a keen photographer, and I want to tell you about this date by looking at my Flickr site. 

Last year I was in Melbourne and, among other activities, visited the sister of my colleague Amber, where she was living at the time. We prayed together. We shared Bible information. That was meaningful. 

Three years ago, I was in Sydney's west at Featherdale Wildlife Park with my two Aussie grandsons. We saw the koalas and echidnas and so much more.

Five years ago, the Board of Directors of Jews for Jesus Australia met together, and I was with them. We prayed and read the Scriptures and had some good conversations about plans for the future. I was heading overseas the next week. It was a look-ahead meeting for sure. 

If you want to see any of these photos and be similarly triggered in my memory or yours, feel free to look at my Flickr site (https://www.flickr.com/photos/bobmendo/)

Over the years, you will have collections of memories as well. Not only where you were, but perhaps how you were feeling, and with whom you were enjoying or enduring life. That's the effect of memories. Do you ever light candles?  Two years ago I was in Surfers Paradise, Gold Coast, at Temple Shalom and attended the evening prayer services. It was very sombre. And moving. It was a memorial event.

Four years earlier, I was in Brisbane for the Australian Pickleball Championships.

In 2017, I preached at the Perth Messianic Assembly in the afternoon after flying over just that morning.

In 2014, I gathered with the leadership of JFJ at the Council meeting in San Francisco. 

And so many, many more. All on 7 October.

You get the idea. This, however, is not a mere travelogue. It's a walk down memory lane to unpack some personal and communal feelings. You see, today is 7 October, and 3 years ago, in Israel just next to Gaza, hundreds of soldiers breached a fence along the border with Israel and slew 1,200 people who were not engaged in combat. They were participating in a music festival. Jews and non-Jews were there, Israeli citizens and people from at least 25 other countries. 1,200 dead non-soldiers. 

And those soldiers who invaded captured and took prisoners: another 250 non-military personnel. Many died in captivity; only some-- not enough-- were released within the next two years.

I've written before about some takeaways we Jewish people should have, or at least can process, as a direct result of that fateful day.  My writing today is more invitational to each of you who is reading this. Whatever your position or current thought about that day 3 years ago. Whatever else you have on your plate today. 

Please, I urge all the citizens of the world, red, blue, Liberal, Labour, Dutch, Irish, South African, Aussie--  whoever you are, and wherever you are just now (I'm writing this on an airplane from Townsville back home)-- please ask yourself what you would have done, and what you would have felt 3 years ago at that music festival. Ask yourself what you can do today to ensure that all people, including the Jewish people you know, or those you don't know, can be safe and not have to look back over their shoulder at who might be coming to attack.

Politics is often messy. Politicians often lie while smiling into a camera. I have shared my own lies enough in life that I know how to do it. So, please, as you read this, don't say, "Yeah, but what about..." and insert a politician or a military tactician or some local yahoo whom you don't respect. Let's do justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with your God, even if you don't personally believe in a God above. 

Let's be the kind of people who do the right thing. On 7 October, on the 10th and throughout our days. Where were you on 7 October? Where will you be on 11 October, and what will you do to make the world a better place then?


08 October 2024

Tragic Days and Glorious Days and today

 Some tragic human days include:

11th of September 2001 (Nicknamed 9/11) when four airplanes were hijacked and over 2,700 people were killed in the USA

7th of October 2023 when over 1,200 Israelis were killed at a music festival in southern Israel by Hamas terrorists, and raped, and another several thousand were injured or kidnapped

15th of April 1865 when the 16th president of the USA, Abraham Lincoln was assassinated at Ford's Theater in Washington, DC

20th of April 1999 at Columbine High School in Colorado when two teens killed another 15 students on the birthday of Adolf Hitler.

7th of December 1941, Pearl Harbor Hawaii, Japan attacked the USA to spread the Second Wold War into that region. 2,300 Americans were killed and another 1,100 were wounded.

22nd of November, 1963. Three famous people died: Aldous Huxley, CS Lewis, and John Kennedy. The last was assassinated in Dallas, Texas. Another fatal tragedy in US history.

24th of August, 1814. Washington, DC was burned!

And the list could continue in country after country, decade after decade, and you might wonder why I'm writing about all these.

July 1931, China Floods. 4 million died.

1900, Galveston, Texas. Another hurricane. 

September 1887, Yellow River Flood, 2 million died.

After writing about all these and so many other tragic days, I began a list of glorious days, good days, and winning days, when people shouted, 'Hurray!' and pleasure finally trumped tragedy.  But some were only personal when I graduated from university or received my Master's degree. Some were related to my family like when my kids stepped into adulthood, one by one, and stepped out of the shadows. My wife's graduation with her Master's degree; my son's first television appearance, my daughter's dancing in the Nutcracker, and the list continues but to be fair, they are all personal.

OK, so what about 'corporate' glorious days? Would that be the back-to-back Super Bowl victories of the Kansas City Chiefs? Or beyond sports, my political favourite won that mayoral or presidential race.  Why is it so much easier to remember trauma than personal triumph?

Andrea Bonior wrote in Psychology Today last year (https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/friendship-20/202312/traumatic-memories-really-do-feel-different) "People who have experienced trauma have a different relationship to those memories than they would to memories of typical, everyday events. Even memories with negative emotional connotations, like sadness, still seem to be in a different category than memories of trauma—where shock and helplessness force the body into an extreme threat response. The intrusion that comes with re-experiencing traumatic memories often involves the entire body and can send people into devastating cycles of flashbacks, nightmares, and even dissociative states."

Bonior cites recent studies and concludes: "These memories are perhaps less akin to how we think typically of recalling an experience and instead are more like reliving that experience. Trauma therapists and trauma survivors have long conceptualized trauma this way, as the body truly revisiting the experience, but to have actual scans of brain activity conveying the difference in these concrete ways is an important step forward."

Last night was 7 October here in Australia and I attended a commemorative service and vigil on the Gold Coast. The mayor spoke; the rabbi spoke; a Christian pastor spoke; and we sang some songs of peace. "Never again is now" was cited by at least two of the speakers and the spirit of the gathering was peaceful and supportive of the Jewish people. 

Of course, one year ago in Israel, over 1,200 people were taken, slaughtered, raped, killed, and hundreds more were injured. Actually, all the people were injured as were most of the world's Jewish population. Tragedy launches the 'shock and helplessness' I felt again last night, which for many here in Australia is continuing.

We desperately long for peace. Or do we? As I sat in the crowd last night, listening to the powerful remarks by the mayor of the Gold Coast, I wondered if those who straddle the middle road are intent on real peace. The rabbi declared that the Greens are not interested in the environment, but are filled with hate. Many in the crowd agreed with those who oppose Penny Wong, our Foreign Minister, as she double talks about Israel and peace. 

How can we proclaim peace at this time?  

How will you proclaim peace?

Yes, tragedies are powerful, and PTSD is well documented. Can we find hope on 8 October? Can we find hope on 5 November? Can we find hope any day?

What will you do to make your world a better place?

Where were you on...?

Today in history is 7 October. Perhaps you remember attending a friend's birthday party or watching a game of the World Series. For some...